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Time for A Change
« on: September 27, 2008, 09:51:30 PM »

With all the other announcements that get posted on here, I thought I'd share our lastest news...we have decided that I simply do not have time to manage a stallion.  We have gotten some beautiful foals by Shadrach & will *gulp* most likely be gelding him this autumn.  I have toyed with the idea of keeping him whole until spring & then breeding one Arabian mare to have a Sweepstakes foal of my own for endurance, though most likely will have it done this autumn.

Times have changed, we led a busy life (four treatment foster children age ranges 3 to 14) and I cannot afford to keep Shadrach with someone else, (and a sitter is not an option, neither is the eldest watching the younger ones) so if I donot have the time to manage Shadrach myself, Jim & I have come to the tough conclusion to schedule an appointment to take him to the vet clinic to have him castrated.  He is 8 years old, so we are a bit nervous for how difficult this will be for him, though are hoping for excellent results.

When I don't have time for him, he gets no social interaction,
and depending on how he reacts after castration, we hope to be able to turn him out with geldings so he can be like any other horse & enjoy turnout & be happy (even on the days he's not worked), as all horses should. 

I have always felt guilty looking at him all alone when he used to love playing with other horses (he was out with geldings & a prego mare until he was almost 4).   

Part of me grieves what will be the end of his reproductive career, though a part of me has hope that he will be happier being a *horse* & not being in solitary.   I know some people can keep their stallions turned out with mares or mules or whatever, that just isn't in our set up right now.  And, we won't be freezing any semen, as we already have two fillies by him, and that is enough for our small farm.   Faith is already going on light trail rides (just did one today) and Josh has hopes of showing her in 4-H & Hunter shows, as well as distance rides.  Hope is there to stand in her sire's place as my next horse...she is so beautiful & so much like him...I'm looking forward to watching her grow up.   

Hopefully as life evens out, you will still see him in the distance rides.  Please pray that we get a good result &
we have a gelding, not a gelding who acts so much like a
stallion that he won't be able to be in a social herd (that is my biggest fear other than losing him).  Here he is, and his last foal...



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Re: Time for A Change
« Reply #1 on: September 27, 2008, 10:25:26 PM »

Changes are hard but inevitable.  Best of luck to you!  (It really does sound like you have plenty of irons in the fire.)
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« Reply #2 on: September 27, 2008, 11:44:12 PM »

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I have always felt guilty looking at him all alone when he used to love playing with other horses (he was out with geldings & a prego mare until he was almost 4
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This is the single, worst thing about a stallion's life.  You've made a very difficult decision, but one that should enrich his life in year to come.  Best of luck. 
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« Reply #3 on: September 28, 2008, 06:47:08 AM »

I feel like I am taking a 50/50 chance that he will be able to enjoy life more-  I have heard personally & read much advise
with many examples of stallions that have successfully and unsuccessfully made the transistion at various ages.  Extreme examples are a palomino colt, gelded at 3 months- always has exhibited stallion behavior since he was a baby, even after a successful gelding.   Most recent story was a 10 y.o. AQHA stallion that was unbroke and ran in a herd his whole life, gelded at 10 and by 12, you would never have known he was a stallion.  And then there is everything in between.  Simply put, my current lifestyle just cannot fit owning a stallion into it
no matter how tough a choice this is-really appreciate all the hopes, good vibes & prayers you can send.  Most likely snip snip date is mid October, hopefully he can have the winter to cool off, heal up and be able to participate in herd turn out come spring.  Embarrassed hopefully.

Jim is having a talk with him to see how this will go...

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« Reply #4 on: September 28, 2008, 07:36:53 AM »

I was sort of in your shoes with Preston.  I know how hard the decision is, but once you make it, it does get easier.  Preston was only 4 when I gelded him and he handled it like a trooper.  Although it took about 6 months to truely get the hormones gone.  And even now, he would make a good tease horse.  He doesn't get excited, and doesn't get over protective, but he will arch his neck and "talk" to his girls.  AND he is better with going out with girls than the other boys.  He is loving and happy with his girls (they even steal his grain) but with boys he tends to be dominant.

It is hard, but it is for the best also.  You could always have some semen frozen (it is actually quite cheap to store it - some places are less than $10 a month - don't forget to check out the cattle places).

I work in services with DCF (I'm a Care Manager Supervisor) so I know how full your plate is, and I also am well aware of the restrictions on having sitters etc.  The life of a foster parent is not an easy one - nor is it a wealthy one.
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« Reply #5 on: September 28, 2008, 09:02:39 AM »

How unique to have someone who understands the love of the breed, complications of treatment fostercare & gelding a horse you believe in... Sad

Thank you for your reply.  Our life has taken a drastic turn, and I cannot say I don't love the turn, I do...I just have a hard time saying 'no' to kids in need... it does break my heart
when they leave, though I wouldn't trade the time with them for anything...obviously, I'm willing to geld Shad & let that dream go...

for me, fostering is my life purpose...and the at the core of who I am....horses are my respite...and managing a stallion has just become too much to add to that plate.   I just hope that gelding will be super successful, I don't want him chasing other geldings around, and I don't want a studly gelding...though I know it is probably likely...if he could be just a little lower maintence...we could be still in the competition world later on in life...he can get his social interaction in a herd...and some exercise on his own...have some friends other than me.... Wink  Right now his only 'friend' when I'm not around is the farm dog...(seen in so many pics) Spur chases him....and he chases Spur...and around and around they go...not good friends if you ask me... Tongue
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« Reply #6 on: September 28, 2008, 10:53:59 AM »

I imagine that he will be fine - it will just take time for the hormones to wear off.  I forget how months it is per year that newly made geldings loose that studliness, but it isn't a quick thing.  Like I said, with Preston, it just means putting him out with mares instead of geldings.  He doesn't try to breed them, and he is safe around them - but he was a good stallion with the mares too.  AND I pasture bred him to 3 mares.

The horses are my respite too.  After dealing with the moms and dads (and the heartbreak of some of the kids) all day it is nice to come home and smile at the antics of the babies.
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« Reply #7 on: September 28, 2008, 05:05:05 PM »

What a hard decision to make, Christina.  Sad  But having a solitary stallion is so hard on everyone involved, that though you're giving up a dream, you're fulfilling another one--that of having a happy horse.  I suspect that since he was okay with the mares previously, you'll see him settle into geldinghood easily.  I see no reason why he'd have to be with geldings only.

I had a friend who gelded her stallion at age 9 or 10.  He was turned out with her mares, and he got along just fine.

Do consider keeping some frozen semen.  You may not see a need for it now, but you may want it down the road.
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« Reply #8 on: September 28, 2008, 08:25:51 PM »

I know it is a hard decision to make. A trainer that I know had his 9 year old stallion gelded and opted on taking him to the clinic with a 48 hour stay afterward because of bleeding worries they had, but they did not have the horse stalled with them at home.

I know I have been out of the loop for awhile, but Shadrach must be your Karinos Fire.

I hope the best for all.
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« Reply #9 on: September 28, 2008, 08:50:16 PM »

Yes, Shadrach is also known as Karino's Fire~  I am also concerned about bleeding etc. and have made plans for
him to stay in clinic.  How did your trainer's horse adjust
to life as an ex-stallion?
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« Reply #10 on: September 29, 2008, 09:36:37 AM »

The ex-stallion is doing fine. I believe they had him out with other horses within a month. Not only was he 9 but he is a Friesian (maybe larger equipment) that the bleeding concerns were based around.

I would also consider saving some frozen semen. His results on all your youngsters is stunning Shocked

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« Reply #11 on: September 29, 2008, 10:32:35 AM »

Have you considered selling him as a stallion?  Carino just past away; maybe Connie would be interested in him.  We have recently lost so many stallions; I just hate to see him gelded.  I know this is a rough decision on your part.
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« Reply #12 on: September 29, 2008, 12:51:52 PM »

Eclypse, I know exactly how you feel. I remember the day we gelded my 10 1/2 yr old stallion Julian by Carino. We spent the day moping like we were in mourning, it was sad. It is a really hard decision to make but later I promise you, when you see him playing around having fun with the other horses....you'll know it was the best decision you could have made.

The transition from stallion was not easy but he got through it just fine.

Anissa, you remember I had this discussion with you too?
I had tears in my eyes when I thought about how hard it was to go ahead with the precedure.

Just a few weeks ago, I received news of Julian (now 13) and his new owner. She called to say they had won their division in dressage and how much she LOVED her horse! Julian today would probably not have that kind of relationship if we hadn't gelded him.

Here's something that will probably make you laugh out loud:
We called the vet clinic to find out how Julian was after his procedure. Her secretary answered and I asked to speak with the vet, she answered that the vet could not come to the phone at that moment.
Impulsively, I replied "then tell her that we've changed our minds, we don't want Julian gelded and we're coming to get him now"!
Before I could tell the secretary that I was kidding, she had put the phone down and ran to tell the vet!!!   Shocked
Here I am yelling on the phone so she can hear me "COME BACK...I'M KIDDING!!!!"
Well.....needless to say the vet came RUNNING to take our call!!!
I apologizing a million times and ended up with us laughing our heads off!!!  Smiley Smiley
She told us how it went and I have to say, it makes a difference when your vet understands how you feel about this decision. It was the beginning of a healing process for both us and Julian.
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« Reply #13 on: September 29, 2008, 04:07:57 PM »

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Shadrach is my friend, and part of the family...while I cannot say I would never part with him (who knows what hardships life holds for any of us), I would rather keep him.  It is just, as I am sure many or all of you know, that a stallion depends so much on his handler for interacaction & to stimulate his brain...and when I have busy days & cannot work him for 3-4 or more days in a row...it just isn't fair to him...and that is what is driving this choice.   Maybe selfishly, I'd rather have him here, as a gelding where I can see him playing, than a stallion elsewhere.  Jim & I agree that it is surreal how he stamps his get, though he has had an amazing match in Ella, they really go together quite well.   Hope, our 2008 filly, is really all I had *hoped* for and more.   I cannot get over the feeling of him losing out on his own time, he loves to breed, though he loves to be out with other horses even more.  I believe if he had to chose, and could really think it out--he'd chose life with friends over life with mating. I just hope he makes the transition well.  I think Connie has produced four great approved stallions to secure the Carino line.  And, we hope to breed Faith at sometime in the future. 
Patricia,
I guess I didn't realize that Julian was yours?  He reminds me very much of Shadrach.  He's a beauty.   How long did it take him to forget he was a breeding stallion?
I do love the way Carino produced...Shadrach's breeder has a Carino daughter here in WI, though she is o/o a TB mare & the breeder has left Trakehners for Russian riding horses.    A barn I used to bred at is having a sale next month, and there is an Arabian mare there I used to train, I was thinking of buying her & breeding her to Shadrach to try for one more foal, though she is 10 and maiden...so not sure, plus I'd like to have him gelded this year....Has anyone had a late baby?  I noticed that some german bred horses seemed to be foaled in November...how well do mares carry thru the summer?
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« Reply #14 on: September 29, 2008, 05:30:59 PM »

Don't second guess your decision. You are doing the right thing for his long term happiness, and your long-term needs.
You know what the right thing for you to do is.
As far as Shadrach, he won't know the difference. He will only know that somehow he feels less stressed out, more relaxed and has more fun in his life.
I have known several stallions who have been gelded later in life, and none turned out badly. All healed fine (I would suggest that any colt over age 3 should be done at a clinic though, due to increased blood supply to the area), and in a few weeks were much nicer to have around. Most started to settle down in a matter of days.
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« Reply #15 on: September 30, 2008, 05:47:09 AM »

Eclypse, we emailed many years ago about Julian.

We bought Julian from Connie when he was about 4-5 months old. A hard decision was made to sell him and then geld him. Julian's purpose was as a riding horse not a breeding horse. He was not stallion material period. We left him intact because he was sweet which was an inexperienced decision, I call it live and learn. It will never happen again. If we feel a horse is not stallion material or does not pass a stallion inspection, we will geld pronto.

I always thought Julian would stay with us. He was ridden by some amateurs in dressage. But when Titulus was due to arrive and it would be costly to promote him as a show jumper. We accepted the fact Julian would be happier with a (hopefully) lifetime partner riding and competing. Julian was like a best friend as a partner, when that mutual trust came together with his partner....he gave her his "all". A wonderful loving temperament.

Keeping him in my backyard with nothing to do but play was a waste for this talented boy. He loved to work.

You don't know "who" is out there for your boy unless you try to find them. No one says you have to rush either. Put out an ad and interview for his future partner or lease him out to someone who has no money to buy but can pay board, training and competitions.

I tend to agree with Suzette, DON'T second guess your decision. It did NOT take very long for Julian to settle. There were some physical changes but that is normal.

Today we are so pleased for Julian and his happy partner...
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« Reply #16 on: September 30, 2008, 04:11:36 PM »

Hi Christina,

I just want to urge you once more to get some frozen semen, just in case.  Better to have it than to wish down the line that you had saved some.

I also wanted to throw in that I have no doubt that you'll still be riding him in endurance and making your mark.  He's proved his worth, and I suspect that seeing him outside playing will just make you more eager to ride!

Here's to success in all your endeavors, with horses and with your family!
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« Reply #17 on: September 30, 2008, 09:30:28 PM »

Wow,  I am so sorry to hear this.  Just at a time when we are losing so many of our old stallions we are also going to lose a goregeous, successful young stallion.  I understand your decision, but it just breaks my heart.  It would be one thing if he did not produce such fine offspring or had temperament difficulties. 

Can you perhaps find someone locally to be a breeding manager/partner in your horse operations to help keep him active.  He is a beautiful stallion and the half arab in him is very valuable. 

If you must geld him, I have to second the notion of freezing him if you can, or perhaps asking someone to be your partner in this as well to offset some of the costs. 

It is painful to see this happen to the breed.     Embarrassed

All that said, if you do a closed castration at the clinic, he will be fine and judging from your pictures, he will settle into life just fine.   His temperament looks outstanding......
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« Reply #18 on: November 05, 2008, 12:49:26 PM »

Update.
Shadrach was gelded on Oct.22nd.  And has since been adjusting to losing those stallion hormones.  He is doing very well and for the past week he has been turned out with 2 or more horses everyday and loving it!  Have to say it has been wonderful watching him become a regular horse again...seeing him have friends ~ it has been such a relief and just great. 
He is so much more relaxed & really enjoying running in the fields.  Will try to get some more pics today, though my good camera is down.  He spent the previous week turned out in indoor for a few hours at a time with his son, Derby, and they just love each other...spent hours grooming each other and playing halter tag & jumping over the barrels in the arena.
Even though I agonized over this choice...what a relief it is...
and I am so glad to have two of his daughters...it has all worked out so perfectly..
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« Reply #19 on: November 05, 2008, 07:50:26 PM »

Very glad to hear your boy is doing well and adopting to his new world. Good Boy Grin Grin Grin

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« Reply #20 on: November 05, 2008, 10:39:47 PM »

I'm so happy for you and him, Christina.  He does look very content.
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« Reply #21 on: November 06, 2008, 09:23:30 AM »

I'm so happy for you and him, Christina.  He does look very content.
just being able to look out my kitchen window and see him in a herd is so enjoyable & amazing...I've really
missed him being able to 'just be a horse.'  Grin 
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« Reply #22 on: November 06, 2008, 07:26:54 PM »

That's great news, Christina.  Yes, the inability to just be a horse is a major downside for a stallion.
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« Reply #23 on: November 06, 2008, 07:33:29 PM »

I was joking with Jim today that Shadrach having been a stallion for awhile, had benefits besides foals, especially for endurance...we like to see them keep going potty, and all I have to do is show Shadrach someother horse's pile and he'll
produce one too!  He also stayed a bit smaller (I'm short, so 15.2+ is perfect for me & what we do...and of course, he is still just as stunningly beautiful...sometimes he just takes my breath away...prancing in the pasture this weekend...no wonder he is so easy to capture photos of...he is in perpetual pose.  He's home for the entire night for the first time tonight (he's been hauling here for the day & back to boarding stable for night) we finally feel confident that he and Junior are going to get along fine and if not be pals (Like he and Derby), at least they can eat side by side with no problems...though they don't play & groom each other.
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